Asked to Train the Person Who Got the Job, or to Hand Them Your Work?

The promotion went to someone else. Now they want you to train that person, or to hand them the work. They may have come from outside. They may have less experience than you. In both cases what they are asking is the same kind of work: teach them how things run here, or go on doing pieces of the job they were given.

Passed over for a promotion works out what the job you didn't get was worth to you. What they ask you to do next is the training, the handover, and the extra work you took on while you were expecting the promotion.

Three questions help you see what they are asking.

What to do this week

1. Write the criteria they used to choose the other person, in their words, with the evidence next to each one.
2. Put the handover in tasks, and put an end date on it. A handover that ends and doing their job with no end date are different requests.
3. Split last month in two. Column one is the work you agreed to. Column two is the extra you took on while you were expecting the promotion, and that is what you renegotiate.

What criteria did they use to choose the other person?

Ask your manager which criteria they used, and what evidence they have for each. Write the answer down in their words.

A named skill, a market, or a kind of experience, with an example, is something you can check. You can then decide whether you want to build that skill, and whether it leads to the next role or to pay.

If they ask you to teach them how this company works, you are using what you already know from your time here. That still does not tell you whether they valued seniority in this company or the experience the role needs. Ask which of the two they used.

Some criteria sit outside the work you do now, such as a different leadership style or supervision they describe as more objective. Working harder in the job you have does not change that criterion. Ask for an example. A criterion that is only a name, with no example, is one you cannot test yet.

Some answers leave the criterion blank, such as "a great package," "a better fit," or "we needed to go in a different direction." Ask once more for the skill, the experience, or the behavior, and note whether you get one. A second vague answer means you still lack the criterion. If you were not in the other interview, part of the comparison is missing, so note that too.

"You're too valuable to move" tells you why they want you to stay in the job you have. Ask what the other person brought, and whether the work they don't want to lose can carry your name, a date, or a change in pay. Note what they offer. If they refuse and still name no criterion, the clear part is that they want you to stay in this job.

Are they asking for a handover with an end date, or for you to go on doing their work?

People use the word training for two different requests.

Help that is specific to this company, and it ends. That is who you go to when this client has a problem, where the files are, and who actually decides. The new person may still need this company's version of that. Make the list and put your own end date on it.

The job they were hired to do, and it continues. You continue the higher-level assignments and you teach the craft, and in this request there is no date when it stops. Ask for an end date, your name on the work, or a change in pay. You can also stop taking that work.

A question for your manager: "What do you need me to hand over, and when does that end? If it continues, where does it show up: my name, my pay, or the next role?"

Write the answer down. A date tells you when your part ends. If the work continues, look for your name, your pay, or the next role. If none of those is there, the extra work stays in the role you hold.

Passed over for a promotion prices whether you would have wanted the job they gave someone else. If they later offer the title and the pay stays where it is, a promotion without a raise prices those terms. If the piece you are renegotiating is pay in the role you still hold, how to ask for a raise is about asking so a no tells you something.

What extra work did you take on, and what do you renegotiate?

While you were expecting the promotion, you may have taken on work above the role you agreed to. That can mean weekends, email after hours, projects above your grade, covering the role that was empty, or training with no end date.

You can split last month into two columns.

Column one is the responsibilities you agreed to. You continue that work.

Column two is what you took on while you were expecting the promotion. That is what you renegotiate, and you can ask for something different on each line.

• An end date, or stopping that line, when it was a bet on a promotion you didn't get.
• Recognition. Your name on the work, in the update or the review.
• Authority. You lead the initiative, or you present it.
• An opportunity. The skill you still need, with a review date. Or work where more people see you: another team's project, or a regional project.
• Pay, or a title. The answer may be a number, a title, a date, or a denial. Note which one you hear.

If someone asks why a piece of column two is changing, you can say: "I took this on while I was expecting the promotion. I can continue it if it is part of my review, my pay, or the next role. Otherwise I need an end date."

If column two is why someone called you too valuable to move, this conversation is where you find out whether that sentence holds. The work they don't want to lose is the work you are asking to put your name on, to lead, or to tie to pay.

Two examples

Both are made-up. Priya ran the team as interim. The company hired a director from outside. Her manager said the new person "had the executive presence." She asks which skill or behavior that phrase refers to. The answer is the relationship with the board, which she has never managed, and a review in six months. The training they want is two weeks of walking the new director through the accounts. Her extra work is the weekend board memos she started during the interim, while she was expecting the promotion. She continues the responsibilities she already agreed to. She does the two-week handover and puts an end date on it. She asks for the memos to carry her name on the six-month review, and for that review to say whether the board relationship is the skill she is building. She can read the review when it arrives. Leaving remains one option if the review names nothing she can act on.

Luis has been on the team longer than the person who got the job. He is told the new person "was just a better fit," and he is asked to go on running the weekly client reviews "until they get up to speed," with no date. Two months later he still owns them. He asks again which criterion they used. He treats the reviews as work outside the role he agreed to, with no end date. He asks for one of three things: a stop date, his name on the reviews in the client update, or a conversation that ties them to pay or to the next role. He hears "let's see how it goes." He writes it down as: no criterion, and no date. His agreed work stays as it was. The reviews are the renegotiation he has not closed yet. He can have that conversation before he decides anything about leaving.

Where the three answers leave you

They named a criterion, and there is a date. You can decide whether you want to build that skill. Passed over for a promotion asks what would need to be true, who decides, and when you review it.

They named a criterion that sits outside the work you do now. A style they want, or supervision they call more objective, can stay in place while you do the job you hold. You can still ask for your name on the work, the lead, or a change in pay. If what you wanted from the promotion was the pay or the influence, that same page is where you work out what each one was worth to you.

You still have a blank criterion, a handover with no end date, or "too valuable" with no pay and no title. You still cannot see what the decision was based on. If the training continues, you also have more work. Go on asking for concrete things: the criterion, the end date, and what you asked the extra work to become. Staying or leaving has its own page.

The position you're deciding from

The training and the handover are the part you can see. What you cannot see is whether the work you already did, once you set the extra aside, reads as ready for the next role, or for the pay that was supposed to come with this one, to someone who was not in the room. Before you decide, the question is what already counts, what you may be overvaluing, and what you can still put where another person can read it.

A Position Audit reads your career the way an investor reads a position. It asks what you really have, what you might be overestimating, what's working against you, and what you can still change before you move. You get a clearer view of what you can count on, where you're exposed, and what to check or improve before you act.

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FAQ

What should I ask about the criteria they used?

Ask which criteria they used to choose the other person, and what evidence there is for each. A named skill or kind of experience, with an example, is something you can test. Ask whether they valued seniority in this company, or the experience the role needs. "A great package," "a better fit," or "too valuable to move" still needs a skill, a kind of experience, or a behavior you can work on. Ask once more, and write down what you hear.

How do I tell a handover from being asked to go on doing their job?

List the tasks and an end date. Help that is specific to this company and has an end date is a handover, such as who you go to when a client has a problem, where the files are, and who decides. Staying with the higher-level assignments and teaching the craft, with no date when it stops, means their job is still sitting with you. Ask what you are handing over, when it ends, and where that work shows up if it continues: your name, your pay, or the next role.

What do I renegotiate from the extra work I took on?

Split it from the responsibilities you agreed to, and continue the work you agreed to. For each extra you took on while expecting the promotion, decide what you are asking for: an end date, your name on it, or pay.

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